Tags: [[+]] - [[Friendship]] - [[Plagarism]] Title: [[+ 2020-10-26 Deep Dive with Derek Sivers - Life Advice Writing and Entrepreneurship]] URL: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vHIiC6SPxoQ Channel: [[@Ali Abdaal]] Reference: [[@Derek Sivers]] Publish Date: 2020-05-26 Reviewed Date: [[2020-10-26]] --- <center> <iframe width="560" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/vHIiC6SPxoQ" frameborder="0" allow="accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen></iframe> </center> - `27:29` - Dont force the sources of your information on people who didn't ask for them. SAY THE SENTENCE and if they care where it came from, tell them, otherwise don't bore with the grainy details or spewing a bibliography at people. - `56:00` - Friendship is more than just being a good conversationalist, with friendship there's an element of emotional safety where you know you can be vulnerable with that person and impose a little upon them "Hey, I'm feeling sad about this thing, i just want to talk" and feeling comfortable with asking for that - `1:23:24` - Replying to everyone who sends you a message can lead to unexpected connections and friendships but it makes you seem very down to earth and people enjoy seeing those they admire and follow on their level and willing to connect. Don't pedestal people, approach them as another person with whom you want to chat with