> Happy is he who gets for himself > praise and warm regard; > more difficult to deal with when a man must have > what lies in another man's heart. - Happiness comes to those who work for what they want - and earn it through their own toil and efforts - This industriousness is also admired by others - as you are being a productive member of society - You also work for what you want v.s. causing trouble - and attempting to take from others and causing problems - It is difficult to deal with people who covet what others have - People who steal, kill, lie, and cheat for gain are not praised and celebrated - they didn't work for what they wanted - they didn't earn it, They took it from others, likely those their community - This doesn't foster [[Frith|frið]] and strong community ties - and in fostering [[Frith|frið]] it is hard to deal with such people - in overcoming the fear of asking for help and winning the battle over that fear - happiness will come from the result of seeking advice and help from others - It is more fulfilling when you can accomplish something yourself - v.s. always requiring help from others to complete something - "I did this hard thing all on my own" - putting in that initial footwork too before seeking assistance - Facing challenges and not avoiding effort by just asking for the assistance of others - favoring independence - Happiness comes from achieving something for yourself and achieving and accomplishments - less happy is the man who is envious of what others have